Don’t get me wrong, I know that some of you gentlemen absolutely have James Bond style and sex appeal and know how to attract our attention with just a look and a smile.But if that’s not you, if your success rate is less than stellar, if you aren’t a super model, if you hear “no thanks” much more than you see a bright smile light up a woman’s face…then please read on. Although the better looking you are the better your chances are – not fair, I know, but it’s the truth and that’s life.Here are the major No-No’s…basically what NOT to do…then follow-up tips of suave moves to try instead!Never interrupt Girls Night Out: There you are…you see a group of ladies smiling, giggling, toasting, maybe dancing, and genuinely having a great time. Not a single one of the ladies has been looking at you or flirting with you from across the room. They are out for a GNO – a girls’ night out – a sacred ritual by most women’s standards because today’s woman is busy and it’s hard to coordinate a night out with all the girls together.Another scruffy guy blunders past us, turns out to know one of our group, and stops to chat.Something about the way he holds himself and slightly sways side to side makes me realise that he's high as a kite. A woman, near the doorway, stumbling, seems close to vomiting, and has to be taken outside.
Of the scattering of women in the crowd, a few like us are single women on a night out. And a handful of young, glamourous things in short skirts and dresses, clinging leech-like onto the arms of older men, who wear beatific smiles of entitlement.Metaphorically from an women’s perspective, like Cinderella at the ball, their Uber rides turns back into a round pumpkin again because of the curfew. The world is your oyster, and you deserve all the good pleasures in life if you have money or not. So why waste time with Western girls who will mess with your head. Panchatantra and Hitopadesha tells the tale the The Brahmin’s Wife and the Mongoose which is popular in Karnataka.After some very funny chats and inquiries with my girlfriends – a mix of Indian and expat women – I think I have come up with a solid list of tips and tricks to help you improve your chances of SUCCESSFULLY engaging a lovely lady in something more than a simple 3 second brush off on her [email protected]: please feel free to comment and add to the list! Meet loads of available single women in Bangalore with Mingle2's Bangalore dating services!