Remember, though, there’s no reason you can’t use or She Wired or any other mainstream dating site.
This is a personal choice, really, but many women say that disclosing on a website is an easy way to take the fear of rejection out of meeting new potential dates.
Men who have sex with men—we all know this group bears the heaviest burden of HIV in the U. What is it like for a straight man living with an illness that’s historically (and continues to be) associated with gay men?It lets you screen out the losers who can’t handle a woman like you.You do need to come out about your status before you have oral, anal, or vaginal sex, not for their safety as much as yours. Each of those states has reported proceedings in which an HIV-positive person has been arrested and/or prosecuted for consensual sex, biting, or spitting, and in some states even a hand job can be a risky act if you haven’t told your sexual partner your status.Every once in a while I'd lock my door and thumb through it in bed, reading about what to expect over the years as the virus would tax my immune system.In more courageous moments, I'd delve deeper, opening a private browser on my laptop to search things like "how to tell boyfriend about HIV" or "HIV pregnancy." I'd then been dating the same man on and off for two years and thought I'd unknowingly given him HIV.Are straight men the forgotten group in this epidemic?