I’m taking coaching from Hector and there are a bunch of things we’re working on (I’m good but not perfect!
), but there is something which is sort of discouraging me. However, out of these 150 approaches (mostly day game), I was able to get 8 dates or so, and only like 4 make-outs (2 have been same night pulls). I would be frustrated at this, but when I go out, it’s a new day, I don’t carry it with me.
This friendship-first approach has fundamentally changed my understanding of dating and relationships.
Observe what happened next…A year after meeting Jessica, I needed to travel to a new city for work and I realized that I had no place to stay there.
But for the here and now, let’s just break down each type of opener first.
We had a lot of fun putting this interview together and would like to thank everyone who got involved!
We kept things friendly and fun rather than expecting things to turn romantic or physical right away.
By not overtly expecting sex, commitment, or even compatibility upfront, and instead focusing on just creating a series of fun, memorable experiences, we had implicitly set the precedent for a approach to dating.
In this article, we will go over the different types of approaches () available to us (future articles will address your Attitude and how you can Attract her even before you Approach her to the D-Phase, being Dominant showing Direct Intent and then Disqualifying).
Internalize these and formulate specific examples of each to use on your own, in the field.